Kinky explanation about Power Exchange!
This is a short description of PE (Power exchange) to TPE (Total Power Exchange) from my perspective and based on my experiences and knowledge. As I always emphasize, before everything starts there should be a great deal of communication, Dom and sub should talk about their limits and boundaries, and sub should pick her/his safeword. Then, when the dynamic is going to take place, there always should be a written contract that contains terms and conditions for the power exchange dynamic. There are many different levels of power exchange dynamics in BDSM, some just use it for sexual role play while others use it as a daily lifestyle and routine. The level at which each Dom (Master/Mistress) starts her/his PE differs from each other, and it depends on how soft or hard they play and also how newbie friendly their techniques are. In the PE lifestyle, Dom (Master/Mistress) will have some rules and routines, which can range from diet preferences to outfits to sleeping hours and so on, but it doesn't cover the entire spectrum of submissive life. Total power exchange (TPE) lifestyles require a submissive to give up all control to their dominant, without limits or boundaries. (The most important thing here is that everything from PE to TPE should be consensual). For example, if I want my subordinate to eat vegetarian food but he really doesn't want to, I can't beat him until he accepts it. 🙂. So there will be two options: either I change My rule or I let him move on to find another dynamic. In My opinion, no (Master/Mistress)Dom should start the TPE lifestyle from day one; the starting point should always be PE, and then, with time and trust, the dynamic should, in a consensual way, turn towards TPE if that's what the sub wishes for as well. The TPE lifestyle also differs from person to person because some rules can be counted as total submission for some submissives while for others there are PE levels. TPE includes control over the submissive's diet, career, social activities, appearance, place of living, style of living, and in extreme cases, even budget. In exchange for complete submission in TPE, the dominant partner is responsible for the health, safety, and general well-being of their submissive. The full TPE occurs for live-in slaves. PE and TPE are still part of BDSM, so they follow the rules of a safe word, and that's the main thing that separates them from being in an abusive relationship! I hope these explanations help some of you to clear your mind about this subject. Have a kinky day Lady ArtMaze |
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