Sexuality & identity

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Sexuality & identity

Gender identity

Female Female (trans woman)Male Male (trans man)

Agender Androgyne Bigender

Genderqueer Intergender Neutrois Pangender

Gender expression

Gender expression is how a person publicly expresses or presents their gender. This can include behaviour and outward appearance such as dress, hair, make-up, body language and voice. Read more

Gender-nonconforming Crossdressing

Queer

Attraction

Orientation
Attracted to other sex (Other sex attraction)Attracted to similar sex (Similar sex attraction)Fetishist (Attraction towards a specific thing, other than sex/gender)Asexual (Absence of sexual attraction)
Identities connected to sex/gender attraction
Heterosexual Heteroflexible Bisexual Homoflexible Homosexual
Pansexuality – Attraction regardless of sex/gender
Pansexual (Attraction regardless of sex/gender)
Asexuality spectra
Grey asexual Demisexual
Varioriented sexuality
Heteroromantic Biromantic Homoromantic Panromantic Aromantic Demiromantic
Other terms
Experimental/Questioning

Power relations identities

Dominant Submissive Sadist Masochist Switch

General role preference/identity

Top Bottom Versatile

General identities related to sexual expressions

Perverse Libertine Kinkster Freak

Leather culture identity

Leather culture is a sub culture associated with leather clothing and BDSM, connected to general queer subculture. Read more

Leatherman Leatherwoman Leather person

Identities related to appearance

Twink Cub Femme

Femboy Butch Boi Bull Silver fox

Role identity/preference

Master Mistress Servant

Owner Property Rope bunny Rigger Caregiver Mommy Daddy Little Brat Sissy Handler

Kitten Pig Pet Gimp Bootblack Cuckold Hotwife Princess Doll Officer Subordinate Goddess Worshipper Keyholder Locked Object Slut Maid Nurse Patient Painslut Urinal Breeder Chubby chaser Power bottom Pleaser Discipliner Service Dom

Preferred BDSM practices

BDSM is an umbrella term for often erotic expressions involving bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, sadomasochism, and related interpersonal dynamics. Read more

Bondage Shibari Breast bondage Discipline Psychological dominance Physical dominance Pain play Spankings Whipping/flogging Service Shame play Age play Animal roleplay Pony play Puppy play Vampyrism Breath control Electro play Tickling Chastity play Sissification/boyification Sensory deprivation Dollification Fornophilia Cuckold/Cuckquean Kittyplay Ball/cunt busting Cock and ball torture Fear Play Primal Play Total Power Exchange Interrogation Orgasm control Needleplay Temperature play Figging Knifeplay Naked vs. clothed Lockable garments Shaving Biting Stapling Trampling Lending

Preferences, garments

Shoes/boots Stockings/underwear Corsets Uniforms School uniforms Police/security guard uniforms Rainwear Diapers Body suits Masks Glasses Rubber gloves Costumes Work clothes Sportswear Denim Life jackets

Preferences, materials

Latex/rubber Plastic/PVC Leather Metal Neoprene Spandex Fur Silk

Preferences, other objects and phenomenon

Furry Tentacles Cast Tape Balloons Protective equipment Splosh/WAM Smoke/Tobacco Weapons/militaria Epoker/Epokromantik Superheroes Robots/cyborgs Vore

Preferences, body parts

Hair Feet Nails/hands Muscles Beards Skeletons/bones Stomachs

Preferences, body modifications

Piercings Tattoo/brandings Body modifications Suspension Implants

Preferences, bodily fluids

Wet Omorashi Blood Roman Scat Sweat

Bodily practices

Strap-on Fisting Analism Urethral play Medical Lactation / Adult breast feeding Queening

Practices, see and be seen

Voyeurism Exhibitionism

Practices/preferences, other

Age difference Gerontophilia Sex magic / Occult sex Religious taboos Dirt/Saliromania Traditional gender roles Role play Tantric sex

Preferred social contexts

Everyday life expressions Solo sexuality Play parties Munches Cuddle puddles Swinging / partner swapping Group masturbation Group sex / orgies Cruising/Cottaging Sex clubs / saunas Dogging Anonymous rendezvous

Relational identity

Polyamorous Relationship anarchist Ambiamorous Non-partnering