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It’s finally happening – a queer bdsm play party in Malmö! We know you are eager to spend an evening together in a space where play is possible, so strap yourself in, and get ready to get soaked in the dungeon! ;)
This evening will have a focus on play, but of course it is also welcome to just come to socialize if you prefer that. We will facilitate some activities in the beginning of the party to make it easier to connect with others. We start this off with a “welcome to the party”-presentation after the door is closed. More info to follow about other organized activities.
We will have a bar area (no alcohol) with affordable prices, it’s not allowed to bring your own drinks apart from a water bottle. We will also provide some snacks but there will NOT be any food for sale, so please keep this in mind and eat dinner before you come to be able to have fun all night!
We organize this party from an intersectional, queer feminist standpoint, to the best of our ability. This means that we believe that societal power structures that are present in the “outside world” will also be present at the party. In order to create a safer space together, please be mindful of this and think about your surroundings. We are all there to have fun and connect, let’s collectively invest in trying to make that possible for everyone!
When: Friday 15th of December. Doors: 20:00 – 21:00, no entry after that. Optional during this time: tour around the space. 21:00, Welcome 21:30-22:15, kinky socializing games 22:30, Round Open until 03:00, everyone needs to be out by this time.
Please respect the door times, you won’t get in after the door time is over even if you have a ticket. If you want a tour of the space, try to come early during the door time.
About the space: In terms of play areas we will try to set up the space in a varied way to make space for multiple types of play. If you have any play furniture to lend out – please reach out! Some equipment/spaces that will be available include; floor mats for rope, playfights, puppy play etc., a cage, a leather dog bed, benches and beds, a sling, a wet area, a tiny cell, some impact tools to borrow, a smoking room, a socializing area.
There is also a non-play shower available if needed before leaving the party, bring your own towel.
Unfortunately it’s not possible for us to create a very quiet area for aftercare or other needs, but our intention is to create a little bit of a separated space with couches and blankets for aftercare.
Accessibility: Unfortunately only parts of the space are accessible for wheelchairs, most of the play areas are not. Location will be sent out to those who get a ticket.
Tickets: 200 kr – regular tickets 150 kr – student / unemployed / low income. These are available in a limited amount, don’t buy this one if you don’t need it.
This event is pre-sale only, you will not be able to buy a ticket at the door. You first need to fill in a form to sign-up for the party. Link to form. After you’ve filled in the form we will contact those who got tickets with a link for payment. After you have paid for your ticket the registration is confirmed.
Target group: By queer we mean aligned with the queer community and either not cis-gender, or not straight. If this is you, welcome! Being new to kink is okay, we welcome kinksters of all experience levels.
Priority groups: Since there is a higher demand for the party than what we have spots for, we will reserve some of our tickets for two priority groups. If you are in any of these two groups and want to come, let us know before Nov 20th. If you want you can mark this in the form when registering for a ticket. The groups are:
QTBIPOC There is a general over-representation of white people in many queer spaces and this also applies to kinky spaces, we want to make extra space for BIPOC queers to have the chance to decide to go or to organize to come with friends.
Queers over 50 Inspired by the great SMash party in Copenhagen we want to make more space for age diversity than we already have in our local scene. The tendency to withdraw from events as we get older likely has many reasons, but we want to assure people that we want to be a sexy option at any age.
Dresscode: There is no specific dresscode, but dressing up is encouraged! Think about what makes you feel hot, flirty and comfortable. This is a great opportunity to wear your leather, latex, lace, puppy hoods, sports wear, harnesses or mesh – this is not an exhaustive list but just as an inspiration! There is a small space in the entrance where it’s possible to get changed, it’s not super private.
Party checklist: - Age limit: 18 years
- No photos or phones in the space! If you need your phone for health/accessibility reasons, let us know.
- Safer sex-supplies (condoms, lube, gloves) will be provided, but if you have a preferred lube – bring it!
- No alcohol/drugs allowed. Don’t arrive drunk/intoxicated.
- Bring your own tools! We will have a few impact tools to borrow, but amount and type is limited.
- Read the Code of Conduct! We reserve the right to show people out from the party if needed.
- Smoking is only allowed in the smoking room – if you exit the party you go home.
- Payment in the bar is by card or Swish only, venue doesn’t handle cash unfortunately.
You can also join our network for pre-/post-/inbetween events chats and socializing. We do queer munches once a month in Malmö, and there’s also sometimes other events happening in-between that which are not publicly posted. Join here:: www.darkside.se/net/?id=2506